15th May 2025
Looking back on the week leading up to Umra, it had been so packed with things happening, I had really not had the time to prepare my mind and my self for what was ahead. Many a times I had thought about being in the precinct of the Kaaba – a guest of Allah swt. And now when it had become an immediate I did not seem to be prepared enough. I decided that I must make some life changing decisions, set myself some goals that I could work towards. And here is is what I thought.
Attitude of Gratitude.
I decided that I would actively endeavour to look at life in a constructive way. I would change my perspective on things. Step out of the moment and look at issues from different angles. Become a Watcher observing from the outside, and then see how I can benefit. How I can turn things to my advantage, making challenges an opportunity to grow close to Allah.
I decided that I must recognise the greater good in everything that unfolds in my life’s journey. I will not allow situations and people to weigh me down. Every trial and hardship will, IA, be a route to grow in my mind. I will stop being resentful, accept situations for what they are and see how to use them to bring out the best in myself. In essence, be grateful at all times.
Other-focused life
The second thing that I thought of will be to lead a more other-centred life. Think of other’s before I think of myself. Take joy in giving joy – a bit of a paradox that, but the truth, nevertheless. I have surely learnt that there is greater joy in giving than in taking. I am grateful for that lesson. I could have ended my life without learning that. I have also learnt that when you stop thinking about your own needs all the time, you stop worrying too. Life becomes far more fulfilling and peaceful. People are happy in your company and look forward to seeing you.
Finally, never forget the oppressed.
I have promised myself that I will be active in remembering them, speak up for justice and promote their cause. I know I don’t do enough, and I am disappointed with myself. IA, I am working on it, and praying that Allah swt inspires me.